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ఒక పెద్దాయన అన్నాడు "మూర్ఖులు ఇల్లు కడతారు, తెలివైన వాళ్ళు అందులో నివాసం వుంటారు" అని. నీ దగ్గర లేని 50 లక్చలు పెట్టి ఆ ఇల్లు కొనే బదులు. అదే డబ్బు పొదుపు చేసుకొని మంచి పథకం లో పెట్టుబడి పెట్టుకుంటే 40 వేల దాకా వస్తుంది. ఒక పది వేలకు ఒక మంచి ఇంట్లో అద్దెకు వుండి. మిగిలిన డబ్బుతో కుటుంబం అంతా ఒక విలాసవంతైన జీవితాన్ని గడపోచ్చు. 6 నెలలకు ఒక సారి దేశ విదేశ యాత్రలకు కూడా వెళ్లొచ్చు (http://www.yhaindia.org/). రోజూ బడికి ప్రమాదకరమైన రహదారుల్లో బైక్ మీద వెళ్ళడం కంటే కార్ లో వెళ్ళడం ఎంతో వుత్తమం. నువ్వు లేని ఎంత మంచి ఇళ్లైన, నీ పిల్లలకు, నీ అర్థాంగికి ఏం ప్రయోజనం? చాలీ చాలని బతుకులు బతికింది ఇక చాలు. అందరిలాగా లేని డబ్బుతో ఆస్తులు కూడగట్టుకునే క్రమంలో నువ్వు ఏం కోల్పోవడానికి సిద్దమయ్యావో నీకు తెలియట్లేదు. EMI (నెలసరి కంతులు) లో నీ జీవితాన్ని తాకట్టు పెట్టొద్దు. మీ నాన్న నీకు ఏం ఆస్తులు మిగిల్చి వెళ్ళాడు? మీరు నెగ్గుకు రాలా? కని, పెంచిన పిల్లల పై, వారి సామర్థ్యం పై నమ్మకం లేని తల్లిదండ్రులే ఇలా వెంపర్లాడేది. పిల్లల భవిష్యత్తు కోసం ఆరాట పడుతున్నాం అన...

How Convenient?

Yeah, it is very easy and convenient to say that it runs in my family. "My mom has got this, my grandma has got this, so did I." This is an escaping mentality; you are choosing a name for your laziness. If there is anything to be blamed, that is you and only you and your lifestyle. You had all these years to reverse and build a healthy body, and you didn't. Instead, you're blaming everyone else but yourself. Start taking responsibility for who you are and where you are. And don't keep blaming your upbringing. Now, you know that your upbringing is not up to the mark. Why don't you do something about it? Keeping on blaming somebody will not yield anything. Nevertheless, you choose to be lazy, and you call yourself a lazy person. Then, you should accept the medical reports in the same manner. You shouldn't make a hue and cry.

Is your Dad bad?

Have you ever been asked, "Is your Dad bad?" Well, let's unpack that. Do you stand by idly while every Tom, Dick, and Harry insults him without cause? Do you allow others to exploit him? Is it fair to assume that someone labeled as "bad" is incapable of any good deeds? Speaking up for a father who may have made mistakes doesn't necessarily equate to love and affection. It's about navigating complex emotions and setting boundaries to protect oneself from toxicity. Personally, I have no desire to return to a turbulent existence devoid of both love and hatred. In that state of neutrality, it becomes clearer to distinguish between good and bad. I often find myself pondering the selfishness of humanity. When people are in need, they turn a blind eye to flaws and faults. But as soon as the need disappears, they're quick to compile a laundry list of wrongdoings. Ultimately, managing priorities isn't within everyone's capabilities. The b...

Freedom???

One person asked me, "Are you surprised to see the freedom here that you don't see in India?" I know what you are trying to interpret from this question. Yes, you are right. The context was about having a close relationship without marriage with whoever and whenever. IS THAT REALLY A FREEDOM ABOUT WHICH YOU CAN NOT REVEAL TO THE WORLD? IS THAT REALLY A FREEDOM THAT YOU CAN NOT CLAIM OPENLY? IS THAT REALLY A FREEDOM TO ALWAYS REVOLVE AROUND SEX? IS THAT REALLY A FREEDOM TO HAVE ONSs (One Night Stands)? I call it extremism, not FREEDOM. I call it Hypocrisy. Why am I writing this post at all? Does it matter? Forget about it.

Oh God! When will you get lost?

A belo3w 10-year-old girl was s1aitting in front of God before going to school and pleading with Great God to make her do well on her sports day. A 6-year-old boy was praying to Great God to make him stand 1st in his exams before going to school. When will this God leave these young minds, very young minds? In fact, it is not the young minds who are to be free from the concept of God. It is the parents' minds which are to be educated. If a girl has to do well in sports, she must practice well. "You play the way you practice, not the way you pray to God." If a boy has to do well in his exams, he must study well. A well-prepared boy will not get failed if he doesn't pay God. Or A boy without any preparation will not do well by just pleading to God. When will this God get lost from the very young minds? You aren't what you believe or say you are, and you are only what you do and how you do it. Someone said that “When you come to an end, that’s where God begins...

#DontBeaPriestBeaCM

We have voted for you to be a CM, not a priest. I was shocked to learn that Andhra Pradesh's Government has spent rupees of 4 thousand crores on Krishna Pushkaralu. What do you think? Whose money was that? That was not at all your money. That wasn't only Hindu's money. That was also Muslims, Christians, and many others' money. Then, how can you spend the taxpayers' money on a specific Hindu ritual? One should keep all their spiritual beliefs at home before occupying a CM's position. Many villages like ours still need roads, and the government is spending a lot of money to promote spiritual baths. We got to see on RTC buses saying, "Come and take dips in Pushkaralu and wash away your sins." How many dips in Godavari Pushkaralu will bring back the lives of more than 29 people who were killed in the stampede soon after you have left the place very safely with your loved family? Who are you to promote a spiritual bath? Please be a CM, not a priest. I...