Yeah, it is very easy and convenient to say that it runs in my family. "My mom has got this, my grandma has got this, so did I." This is an escaping mentality; you are choosing a name for your laziness. If there is anything to be blamed, that is you and only you and your lifestyle. You had all these years to reverse and build a healthy body, and you didn't. Instead, you're blaming everyone else but yourself. Start taking responsibility for who you are and where you are. And don't keep blaming your upbringing. Now, you know that your upbringing is not up to the mark. Why don't you do something about it? Keeping on blaming somebody will not yield anything. Nevertheless, you choose to be lazy, and you call yourself a lazy person. Then, you should accept the medical reports in the same manner. You shouldn't make a hue and cry.
Have you ever been asked, "Is your Dad bad?" Well, let's unpack that. Do you stand by idly while every Tom, Dick, and Harry insults him without cause? Do you allow others to exploit him? Is it fair to assume that someone labeled as "bad" is incapable of any good deeds? Speaking up for a father who may have made mistakes doesn't necessarily equate to love and affection. It's about navigating complex emotions and setting boundaries to protect oneself from toxicity. Personally, I have no desire to return to a turbulent existence devoid of both love and hatred. In that state of neutrality, it becomes clearer to distinguish between good and bad. I often find myself pondering the selfishness of humanity. When people are in need, they turn a blind eye to flaws and faults. But as soon as the need disappears, they're quick to compile a laundry list of wrongdoings. Ultimately, managing priorities isn't within everyone's capabilities. The b...